Anniversary of Gaza war marks 3 years of pain for Canadians with ties to Middle East

Canadians with ties to the region describe three years of horror, with relatives updating them on a humanitarian crisis through frequent text messages, and others grieving multiple relatives killed in a conflict that has taken an astounding number of civilian lives.

Abusalim said the worst is when the internet goes down. When she doesn’t hear from her husband, she wonders if he’s been shot, and she gets nightmares from the carnage she’s already seen.

“It’s a lot of scenarios in your mind, and it’s not stopping. It’s happening every day,” she said.

Her husband Saed has been caught in limbo after the couple attempted to move to Canada. Abusalim moved to Edmonton in 2018, two years after giving birth to their son, Rashid.

Abusalim and Rashid, now 10, both now have Canadian citizenship, while Saed applied years ago for permanent residency, which she says was delayed by the COVID-19 pandemic.

Saed was set to complete biometrics on Oct. 10, 2023, she said. Three days prior, the Hamas attack ignited a catastrophic war. Technically there is now a ceasefire, but dozens of Palestinians are still being killed each month.

Abusalim said her husband was on a list of Canadians approved to leave Gaza through Egypt in January 2024, but she says Egyptian officials refused to let him enter, and later demanded hefty bribes.

He still has an active visa application, she said, but Ottawa will not issue the document until he completes biometric screening, which can’t be done in Gaza. Unlike some European countries, Canada appears unable to get citizens or visa applicants out of Gaza through Israel — where biometric checks might be possible.

The issue has come up for hundreds of people in the territory who applied to come to Canada.

The Canadian Press has reached out to the Immigration Department for comment but has not yet received a statement.

Abusalim says her son threatened a hunger strike in frustration over his father not being able to leave Gaza. She has now taken that on herself, saying Tuesday that she is on her fourth day of only consuming water.

“It’s been eight years since my son held his dad, or smelled him and hugged him,” she said.

“As a mom, I don’t think any mom wants to go through any of this with her son or daughter. I don’t think that keeping up this war is any good for any of us — any side of us, even the Israeli side.”

In Quebec’s Beauce region, Sylvie Labrecque feels acutely the absence of her son, an aid worker killed in an Israeli airstrike in April 2024.

“Every day he’s there in my heart, in my mind, and I do pray and meditate, thinking of him,” she said in a Monday interview.

Jacob Flickinger, a 33-year-old infantry veteran, was on an aid mission with World Central Kitchen, a respected organization that had co-ordinated a convoy with Israel’s military.

“He enjoyed very much to go work for these types of missions, because it meant a lot to him,” Labrecque said.

Israel had drastically restricted the flow of aid to the territory, where it has barred reporters and set unconventionally tight restrictions on the work of humanitarian organizations.

“It could have been safer — not only for him, but for the whole group, to do their work, even though they were in a war zone. They knew that.”

Israel struck the convoy multiple times, killing Flickinger and six other aid workers. In August, Israel’s military prosecutor decided against a criminal investigation

Foreign Affairs Minister Anita Anand called that finding unacceptable, arguing there were serious failures in the conduct of the strike and pledging to continue pressing for a full accounting of what happened.

Labrecque said Canada could do much more to raise the cost of killing aid workers. She fears the government of Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu has no incentive to do better.

“They’ve been killing already tens of thousands of people. So, to kill a few more is kind of nothing to them,” she said.

Israel insists it is protecting itself from regional threats and trying to avoid civilian casualties — but Labrecque said that strains credibility in the Palestinian territories, Lebanon and Iran.

“They’ve done an enormous disaster in Gaza and it’s just expanding around,” she said.

This past April, Hassan Haidar, from Windsor, Ont., was killed at a family horse farm in southern Lebanon by what his family says was an unprovoked Israeli drone.

The Israeli military said it could not comment in detail as it could not locate a case file for the incident, which occurred in the ongoing invasion of Lebanon that Israel says is aimed at routing Hezbollah.

Haidar’s brother Mohamed told reporters the world is letting civilian deaths go unpunished.

“I don’t want his blood to run cold for no reason,” he said. “Until more Canadians fall dead, do we then wake up?”

This report by The Canadian Press was first published Oct. 7, 2026.

Dylan Robertson, The Canadian Press

by The Canadian Press